Was at Suzanne's today, had actually spent the night since Angie (her sis) was in town and wanted to see me... we had a girl's night!  Staying up talking for hours, snacking... awaking to breakfast and a quick devotion,then prayer... very warm atmosphere.  We watched some preacher on TV from Texas that Suzanne had prerecorded talk about the 3 most important needs of a man and a woman.

Man
1. Honor (men can't hear u if u don't honor them;
                  don't talk about his faults to your family;
                  don't cut him down publically; dishonor
                  hinders your husband)

God only lives where He is praised.  Man is made in the image of God.  Men only live where he is praised.

2. Sex (men get in touch w/their emotions thru sex)
3. Companion (a playmate, he loves to have fun) 

Woman
1.  Security
2. Leadership (not domination)
3. Communication (men can not use "fine" any longer in their
                                     vocabulary, but must spend time talking
                                     to their wife everyday)